Thursday, November 22, 2018

 

Thankful Together





Thanksgiving can be such a wonderful time of year in New England. Having just enjoyed a colorful fall and looking forward to a festive Christmas, Thanksgiving can still have the flavor or relaxing and spending time with family and friends. We just need to be intentional about preserving such a special time. Thankfully, retailers have not yet hijacked the holiday as thoroughly as other holidays and many traditions still tend to focus on positive things like valuing family, enjoying friends and letting God know how thankful we are for all the good things He has provided.



The Thanksgiving tradition in America is a long and rich one, and there are many stories about its origin.  Many of us on the East Coast may become nostalgic when we are reminded that the first Thanksgiving celebrations originated in our neck of the woods. According to The New England Historical Society, the first Thanksgiving may have taken place in Maine:



“New England’s first Thanksgiving, at least the one celebrated by European colonists, wasn't in Plymouth, Mass. The American Indians had held harvest celebrations of their own long before the Europeans ever arrived. And when they did arrive, they held the first Thanksgiving in 1607 in Popham, Maine.



The Popham Colony a year-long effort to establish a British colony in Phippsburg, Maine at the mouth of the Kennebec River – began in the summer of 1607 and ended a year later in 1608. For one harsh winter a group of English settlers tried to stick it out at a small fortification they constructed.



During that winter the group suffered a fire at its storehouse. Its president, George Popham, died, and so did several others in the group. The colony also struggled because its leadership did not establish strong enough relations with the local Native Americans, who might have helped the settlers as they did in Plymouth. Nevertheless, there is a record of a 1607 feast  -- the first real Thanksgiving -- with the local Indians.”



Sprinkled throughout that account is something more important than establishing who was first to celebrate Thanksgiving in America. That more important thing is the reminder that life is difficult, and we would all be wise to help one another figure out how to survive and thrive rather than argue or strive with one another over differences. The above article suggested that early settlers in Popham may have survived had they been more open to the help of people who were from a different mindset and culture.



Those of us who are believers have been given clear direction on this matter. St. Paul wrote a letter to his protégé giving him these instructions: “I urge you, first of all, to pray for all people. Ask God to help them; intercede on their behalf, and give thanks for them.” (1 Timothy 2:1 NLT)


After a divisive election season, wouldn’t it be great if we could cultivate a Thanksgiving season focused on appreciating one another and finding common ground? What if every family could come together and celebrate common goals and our mutual blessings? What if communities could temper their speech and their attitudes with kindness and appreciation for their fellow human beings? What if Churches could be thankful for everyone, with confidence that truth will stand on its own without being propped up by contention or arguments? Thanksgiving is still a bright spot for many people and it has so much potential for good, if we decide to be thankful together.

Tuesday, November 20, 2018

 

Salvation is a "Get To" Thing

It was a Cinderella-type romance. The 19-year-old girl had come from a dysfunctional home where she was mistreated and unappreciated. Because of poverty and limited educational and work experience her hope of ever bettering her life was non-existent. Then “he” came along. He was polite, well-off, gainfully employed and very interested in the beautiful young lady who now sat opposite him at the candle-lit table in the high-end restaurant.

Their relationship had progressed. They felt comfortable with each other, they had common interests, they had survived lovers’ quarrels and they were both ready for something more substantial. Knowing this, the young man had gone to a great deal of trouble to reserve the table and prepare the perfect proposal. 

After sharing a perfect, not-too-sweet, chocolate dessert, he reached for her hand, dropped to one knee and slipped a gorgeous ring out of his pocket and placed it in her lap. He then looked lovingly into her eyes he said, “You mean everything to me. I love you dearly and I want to commit my life to making you happy. Will you marry me?”

Her answer took his wind away. It seemed so cold, calculating and self-serving when she bluntly queried, “If we marry, do I have to kiss you and go places with you in public? Will you expect me to remain faithful to you alone? Will I have to be intimate with you and publicly refer to you as my husband? Do I have to give you a long-term commitment?”

You can imagine the shock and dismay. In his mind, the invitation to marry was not a “got to” proposition, it was a “get to” proposition. Marriage means two people get to be intimate, committed and exclusive with one another.  You have probably guessed that the evening did not end well, and that the relationship died a terrible death.
Salvation is a very similar situation. God offers forgiveness, washing and empowerment.  He promises to be faithful and graceful toward us both now and forever. He invites us to be a part His incredible kingdom. Yet many people respond like the girl in the story; they ask questions like, “Do I have to be baptized to be saved? Or, do I have to speak in tongues and live a holy life?” Such questions are preposterous in light of the amazing offer God is making. How sad when people discuss salvation in terms of what we have to do, because salvation is not a “got to” thing, it is a “get to” thing.

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